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"Can I indulge in fashion without overspending? Help a sneakerhead software developer budget better!"


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Dear Vice Column, 

I'm a 28-year-old software developer who can't stop overspending on clothes and beauty products. I have a walk-in closet filled with designer clothing and makeup, but I'm feeling overwhelmed by my finances and need help getting my life back on track. My guilty pleasure is buying limited edition sneakers, and I have over 50 pairs that I've never even worn.

- Sneakerhead Developer

Dear Sneakerhead Developer, First of all, let me say you're not alone in your struggles with overspending. Many people, especially in their 20s and 30s, find themselves in a similar situation. It's easy to get caught up in the world of material goods, but it's important to remember that those things aren't the key to happiness or success. So, what can you do to get your finances back on track? The first step is to create a budget. Take a hard look at your income and expenses, and figure out where you can cut back. This may mean scaling back on your spending on areas that are stressing you out, which seems to be discretionary expenses. It's okay to treat yourself occasionally, but try to be mindful of your spending and avoid impulse purchases. Another option is to look for ways to earn extra income. As a software developer, you likely have valuable skills that could be put to use in freelance work. Consider offering your services on a platform like Upwork or Freelancer to earn extra cash. It's also important to examine the reasons behind your overspending. Are you using shopping as a way to cope with stress or anxiety? If so, consider finding alternative ways to manage your emotions, such as exercise or therapy. Finally, if you find that you're still struggling to control your spending habits, consider seeking the help of a financial advisor. They can provide guidance on how to manage your finances and help you create a plan to achieve your financial goals. In terms of your love for limited edition sneakers, have you considered selling some of your collection to offset your spending? There are many online marketplaces where you can sell gently used sneakers, such as GOAT or StockX. Remember, there's no shame in asking for help when it comes to managing your finances. By creating a budget, finding ways to earn extra income, examining the reasons behind your overspending, and seeking professional guidance if necessary, you can get your finances back on track and achieve your goals.

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